If you have not yet been able to make a decision at this point then make it, in secret (I literally learnt this about a decade ago from a nun)

Choose one of the options, and decide to follow that path, but don’t tell anyone and feel what that feels like.

Run with it for a week or so.

One writer asks, does it feel like water dripping onto a sponge or water hitting a stone? For me, a wrong decision feels like a sweater that is too small, and even itchy. Whereas the right decision fits perfectly, feels warm and comforting.

Then after a week, choose the other option, and feel what that feels like. Does it offer consolation or desolation, is it moving you closer to a whole life or further from it.

Get skin in the game, feel your way forward.

Pierre