It's right between your ears
We aren’t called Homo Sapiens for nothing, the word sapiens as you know means wise or intelligent. It is the ability to discern.
Wisdom is gained through discernment, reflecting on your lived experience.
What happened?
Why did it happen?
What will you do now?
A child psychologist friend of ours taught me a simple and effective way to say it;
Stop. Think. Choose.
It’s astonishing how many people skip the middle part.
pierre